Affirming our moral values is one of the ways that could lead us to live a purposeful and good life. Do you agree? In order to reinforce our internal and natural resources, our values and principles, I thought it important to analyze Stephen Covey's Seven Habits which are considered to be a simple set of rules for life - inter-related and synergistic. The final goal is to find the relationship between Covey's Seven Habits if there is one, and the list of values you have chosen as the most important to you as an individual and as a future professional.
The following is a summary of: “ STEPHEN COVEY'S SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE®
Habit 1 - be proactive®
Among our human attributes are self-awareness, imagination, conscience and independent will therefore we can choose how we respond to situations. To be proactive is the ability to control one's environment, rather than have it control you, as is so often the case. Self determination, choice, and the power to decide response to stimulus, conditions and circumstances.
Habit 2 - begin with the end in mind®
To begin with the end in mind is to suggest that we have some awareness of the end itself. Covey calls this the habit of personal leadership - leading oneself that is, towards what you consider your aims. By developing the habit of concentrating on relevant activities you will build a platform to avoid distractions and become more productive and successful.
Habit 3 - put first things first®
Covey calls this the habit of personal management.This is about organizing and implementing activities in line with the aims established in habit 2. Covey says that habit 2 is the first, or mental creation; habit 3 is the second, or physical creation. Working on the foundation of Habits 1 and 2, you then have to manage yourself effectively to create a life congruent with the answers you elicited.
Habit 4 - think win-win®
Win/win is a frame of mind that constantly seeks mutual benefit in all human interactions. Win/win means that agreements or solutions are mutually beneficial, mutually satisfying. With a win/win solution, all parties feel good about the decision and feel committed to the action plan. Covey calls this the habit of interpersonal leadership, necessary because achievements are largely dependent on co-operative efforts with others. He says that win-win is based on the assumption that there is plenty for everyone, and that success follows a co-operative approach more naturally than the confrontation of win-or-lose.
Habit 5 - seek first to understand and then to be understood®
One of the great maxims of the modern age. Empathic listening is one of the key skills in this area. This involves much more than registering, reflecting, or even understanding the words that are said. In empathic listening, you listen with your ears, but you also listen with your eyes and with your heart. You listen for feeling, for meaning. This is Covey's habit of communication, and it's extremely powerful. Covey helps to explain this in his simple analogy 'diagnose before you prescribe'. Simple and effective, and essential for developing and maintaining positive relationships in all aspects of life.
Habit 6 - synergize®
Covey says this is the habit of creative co-operation - the principle that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts, which implicitly lays down the challenge to see the good and potential in the other person's contribution. By recognizing each person’s particular characteristics, their diversity, their strengths and qualities, their life experience – all those elements that make up the unique individual there is a greater chance of achieving synergy.
Habit 7 - sharpen the saw®
It underlies all the other habits because it is the habit which makes all the others possible. This is the habit of self renewal, says Covey, and it necessarily surrounds all the other habits, enabling and encouraging them to happen and grow.It is about renewing the four dimensions of your nature – physical, spiritual, mental, and social/emotional which all need feeding and developing. ”
THIS IS THE LIST OF MORAL VALUES YOU AGREE TO BE THE MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL AND A FUTURE PROFESSIONAL.
Justice
Responsibility
Respect
Honesty
Solidarity
Loyalty
Tolerance
Generosity
Unity
Perseverance
Equality
Cooperation
Humility
Truthfulness
Empathy
Peace
Kindness
Friendship
Self – esteem
Freedom
TASK:
1. Can you see any relationship between the moral values you have chosen so far, and Stephen covey's seven habits of highly effective people ? If you agree, select from your list the most important values for you and match them with the corresponding habits according to Stephen Covey's description. Give your reasons.